The idea I have been toying with centres around my frustration with the continual gendering of certain traits, whether in an overt or subtle way. I find that people tend to associate certain traits, qualities or tendencies with women, and others with men; and that even in feminist circles there is a temptation to assert the ability of women to ‘take on’, as it were, traits associated with men, rather than a more critical look at what exactly we consider to be ‘masculine’ and ‘feminine’. I am also interested in the ways in which traits which have been considered traditionally feminine – caring, loving, self-sacrificial, etc. – have been used to exploit women, and therefore the complicated ground that women cover when trying to work out how to embody those traits in a positive way, whilst remaining resistant to exploitation, without rejecting their ability and desire to love and care.
To this end, I have envisioned a project in which different traits are discussed, with the overall theme being that women are capable of being ‘both’. Whether this will consist of discussing supposedly opposing traits together, or simply expanding on the complexities of traits by themselves, I don’t know. I would like to crowd-source this – though this would likely be limited to people I know or am in contact with – and have different people write something about different traits. I was originally thinking of asking women only to complete this, but I am unsure whether I should open it out to people of all genders.
I have been struggling with how to set this out, because I wanted to do something which would speak to the specificity of the project whilst being interesting. I did have the idea of making each of these traits singular pieces of card or paper which were then compiled into a folder (or could be stapled/sewn into a book??), with the possibility of having them be post-card style, so that they could be passed along/posted/otherwise disseminated in a natural way. I don’t know whether this would undermine my point about these traits coming together to create a complete, complex person though, as they would then be separated out.
There are lots of aspects of this still to work out, and I’m not definitely set on using it, but this is what I have so far.